Maintenance is a noun that, in legal parlance, means the amount provided to distressed wives, children, or parents for their upkeep, support, or subsistence. This is a benevolent provision of law, as the law says that no person shall leave his wife, children or old parents at the mercy of others and unattended by him; he should be legally bound to maintain the same. This used to be the moral responsibility of the man in old times. However, some men did not adhere to their moral responsibility, and thus, the law was made to make it a legal responsibility that could be enforced as criminal liability.
As happens with most provisions of law. Certain unscrupulous people misuse the laws made for weaker sections. Unscrupulous women have also misused the provision of maintenance to such a proportion that it has now become legal plunder.
Be Genuine with your Documents: Always be upfront and genuine with all particulars of your income. Honesty goes a long way in gaining the court’s empathy or approval. Many people often go to court by hiding their income or showing the income as negligible. The courts throw such claims out of the window. Would you as a person believe if someone comes up and says, “Till yesterday, I used to earn lakhs of rupees, and suddenly, at the start of the litigation, I became a pauper.” So, how would the court believe the same? The courts have the same view in terms of the income of females. And God forbid, if the truth gets revealed someday, you have had it.
Be Diligent in your Approach: The courts are slow, and the process drags on for months and sometimes years. Remain vigilant and treat every court date as a final battle. This is especially true for interim maintenance. One miss, and suddenly, you are saddled with high interim maintenance.
Be Open to Negotiations and Mediation: Regardless of what everyone tells you about going for ZERO settlement. 99% of cases get settled in mediation or through negotiations. I have seen people who used to swear on the water that they would never settle their cases by paying money have settled on the first opportunity. Be wary of false gods. Have a pragmatic approach and settle the matter through negotiation and mediation, as and when possible. Protracted litigation helps only lawyers and no one else. I often say that if one can settle the matter by paying as much money to the wife as one is ready to spend on lawyers, you better pay your wife rather than the lawyer. Also, negotiations and mediation can sometimes happen, even if you have many cases.
Be Prepared: If your wife left on your own or you left her for some reason, be prepared to collect all proofs at the time of severance. Such proofs come in handy to prove either she is a deserter or you had valid grounds to stay away from her. However, this won’t help you much in the interim maintenance stage. But still, this goes a long way in reducing maintenance or denying it altogether. If you ever tried to call her back, have valid proof.
Collect Evidence: Some things which help you in reducing maintenance are a) Her Educational Qualification, b) Her Lifestyle, c) Her Present or Prior working experience, if any, d) Her Bank Accounts and Saving details, including her Form 26AS, ITR or CIBIL Scores. Certain documents can be obtained through RTI, but not all can. Though possession of certain documents is illegal and could be construed as a crime, these documents can be obtained from links/ detectives; if you got the documents through some sources, they don’t produce the same in court as it is. The production of these documents can be done in court through the CrPC 91 application, witness summons or other means.
Work on a Vibhishan in her family: No man or family is an island. And when people are in the social milieu, we all have enemies or snakes buried in our sleeves. Try to find one such Vibhishan in her family. These people can provide insights which are hidden from you. Also, such people go beyond help in pure maintenance cases and can help you settle your cases.
Build your liabilities when you can: Statutory and legal liabilities have first right on your income, even before your spouse. So, home loans or other liabilities that one has before the start of the litigation would have a bearing on deducing your net take-home income. People tend to take loans after the start of litigation, which the court sees as a means to build assets at the cost of maintaining.
If needed, Lick your wounds and continue the battle: God Forbid if you have been saddled with heavy interim maintenance. Think about the efficacy of review/ revision/ appeal with great caution. The interim maintenance order is payable every month. I have personally seen people spending many years going through useless revisions or execution petitions and bleeding every month when the case could have finished early if the girl was put to give evidence or stand in the witness box. Maximum cases settle at the stage of evidence. Early burial of cases saves not only on monthly maintenance but also on litigation costs.
Run cases faster: There is a tendency to delay the arguments and filing of replies in maintenance cases. It is stated that the delay would dishearten the petitioner and compel her to leave her claim. This is a self-defeatist argument; on one hand, one argues that the wife has sufficient means of upkeep, and then one thinks that delay would cause inconvenience to her. Both can’t be true at the same time. Moreover, maintenance is almost always granted from the filing date of an application. The delay would only mean that you would have built the arrears and would be put in many inconveniences to pay for them. Remember that defeating the claim at the final stage is easier than defeating the claim at the interim stage.
Pay genuinely for your child/ if she has no means of sustenance: I know this would not sound good, as she is the erring party. But be genuine. Most courts won’t deny the relief to a person who has no means of sustenance. Also, your children are your liabilities. Pay for their education and upkeep willingly and pay what you would have spent had the children been with you. This can also make the court lean in your favour and bring a settlement to your litigation by pressing her. It would help if you started this before the cases were filed. Also, please remember that not paying for your child’s maintenance can bar you from getting custody of the child.
I also did not follow many of the above steps when my cases were ongoing. Vengeance is blind, I must say. However, I have crystallized the above methods over time and have seen people less sad with the outcome of the above steps.
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39 Comments
After promotion some of my allowances got slashed completle resulting in 20-25% decrease in my salary.. hw can put application for revision of interim maintainance counter to sec 24.
Hi Sir,
My file has filed case against me and my parents under section 498A, 323, 324 crpc and 3/4 and crpc. We went thorugh women cell but no success since she was demanding useless maintenance amount. My question is, can I terminate myself as am working in my own relative’s company. With the help of this, I can show my income as zero so that she is not able to extract useless and unnecessary demands in the form of maintenance from me. Please guide.
Such things are not going to help you, court would decide maintenance on last drawn salary
WIFE demands mutual divorce : Required Stridhan with COMPENSATION or Alimony (ONLY PAY MONEY in one shot)
If HUSBAND not agree THEN…….
WIFE puts False -Domestic Voilence or 498 : Reqd Maintenance / Intrim Maintenance—prolong case by not attending (ONLY PAY MONEY monthly basis)
Can our HINDU LAW DIRECTLY – NULL & VOID MARRIAGE OR DISSOLVE such marriages which are done only to EXTRACT MONEY !
Judges not able to take above desscion hence NOS of FAKE CASES ON DOMESTIC VOILENCE / 498 INCREASED. Is the Judges see only female gender and not right and wrong .
CRIME OF HUSBAND —-
1. HE IS MALE ( HINDU LAW SUPPORTS ONLY WOMEN as per NGO)
2. TRUST THE GIRL & PUT MANGALSUTRA & SINDOOR (consider it as marriage, though wife dessert hubby not taking care of marital responsibility & claim intrim maintenance…Etc)
3. HUSBAND HAS TO LOOK AFTER DEPENDED PARENTS, HOUSEHOLD EXPENSES, PROPERTY TAXES, FAMILY MEMBERS MEDICAL EXPENSES & now wife maintenance…court lawyer expenses, etc… or shall DIE in frustration ….?
BEING 21ST CENTURY , TALKING ABOUT EQUALITY OF SEXES (standing on her own legs in a society) , still EDUCATED WOMEN REQD ANY MONEY IN TERMS OF MAINTENANCE / intrim MAINTENANCE OR ALIMONY / COMPENSATION ? We feel if women is UN- EDUCATED & having CHILD then only MONEY should be ALLOWED for surviving , else Some wife will miss-use the laws and it will become MARRIAGE BUSINESS.
Two MATURE-ADULT &- educated souls come together in form of marriage without asking income (poor/rich) then suddenly in breaking or separating why MONEY become the source in our HINDU MARRIAGE LAW .
SHAADI Karke Dahej lena PAAP hai ! SHAADI Toodke Paisa Dena PAAP Kyo nahi ?
I request u to please FORWARD comments to supreme / high court judges who has POWER TO AMEND LAWS & To protect from Miss-use of laws and give respect to Hindu Marriages OR ELSE –LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP will may be followed FOR FUTURE GENERATIONS in our indian society .
my wife demanded interim maintainance,and to stay in my fathers property ,she knows now i am now unemployed,what steps i should i take to reduce interim maintainance and to protect herself to enter to my parental house. I wanted now a divorce.pls give the right path to go ahead.
I AM VRS OPTEE SR. CITIZEN STAYING WITH WIFE AND CHILDREN AND PAYING MAINT. U/S 125 @ 10,000/- PM PLUS WATER, ELECTRICITY AND GAS BILLS APPROX.3000/- PM TO WIFE.
WIFE NOW FILED PETITION FOR DIVORCE UNDER HMA AND ASKED TO ENHANCE MAINT IN SEC 24 OF HMA. SHE IS ASKING ESPECIALLY TO PAY ANNUAL FUNDS, SCHOOL/COLLEGE FEES AND COSTLY PRIVATE TUITION FEES @ 3000/- TO 4000/- PER MONTHS EACH PER CHILD FOR 2 DAUGHTERS. ONE DAUGHTER IS B.COM.(HONS,) AND YOUNGER IS IN CLASS XII; FAMILY COURT IN INTERIM ORDER ASKED TO REIMBURSE ALL FEES INCLUDING PVT TUITION FEES. I AM NOT WILLING TO PAY FOR PVT TUITION FEES. MY PENSION IS 16,000/- P.M. .PLUS INTT. INCOME FROM SAVINGS. MY WIFE IS M.Sc. AND COMPUTER LITERATE. CAN I BE COMPELLERD TO REIMBURSE PVT TUITION FEES ALSO?
with in how much time can we apply for revision of intereme maintenance order passed u/s.24?
90 days
Hello Sir,
is epf, vpf or NSC deductions from husband salary will get considered while deciding maintenance to wife. Please clarify which one will not get considered.
A DV case was filed against me in Maharashtra in 2009 and interim maintainence was fixed, considering my then income & mutual consent. Since my aged parents were living along & were being harrased, I rented another house & intended to move there, the girl refused to join in (on the pretext of quality house/ locality) & moved to her parent’s house in Haryana. Later, the girl got the case shifted to Haryana, and also filed maintainance case u/s 125. I had to leave my job & unfortunately could not get a full time job since 2013. Though I am regularily filing my tax returns on whatever income I earn from odd jobs/ consultancy projects I get, trail court in 125 case did not consider that & ordered maintainence amount more than my income. I filed a revision appeal and its more than an year that I appealed in session court but no progress as case has not even come up for argument. My request for stay on trail court order is also not responded by session court.. judge is not even giving written order for refusal of stay. Now other party has filed application for execution of trail court order.
Since the case is in Haryana court & I live in Maharashtra, its practically not possible for me to fight case without depending on local lawyer (who happens to be my 3rd lawyer & better than all others that I have come across in that court) but doesn’t seems to have any keeness to fight or win (other party skips the dates when I am present personally & take long dates or make some excuses )
My concerns/ questions:
a. In absence of any written order on stay from session court, can I go to HC directly.
b. What preventive action can I take to avoid any possible arrest for non payment in 125 case (I do not have any assests / ancestral property) if I do not adher to trail court’s order.
c. In absence of a good lawyer & judges not letting me speak to them directly, what can be done.
Please guide/ suggest remedies.
Sir my wife file4 criminal case against iand my family. in all case we got bail from highcourt.in 498 bail condation to pay 3000monthly.i obey and paid regularly. now she file dv,maintenance. in intrim maintenance orderclaim another15000.reliefmonthly.now judge pass 10000monthly.without .ention as high court order ipay before 3000.we arguat court but now on favor of opposite order10000.+3000=13000now. I appel to dist court.my gross salary 60000.net 20000.deduct.pf.vpf.pfloan for father operations. lic.incomtax.etc total deduct i get 20000monthly.please suggest me how i fightmy case.if i
Hi Deepak,
Please let me know what happened further is your pf, vpf got considered or not while deciding maintenance to wife. I am also facing dv case.
Hi Sir,
I filed divorce under 13a.
My wife filed 2 application
1. HMA 24 for nterim maintenance
2. Application under divorce to provide rent .
She is well earning and maintain herself.
However judge passed order on very 1st day of our reply.
1. For HMA 24 , no maintenance is given
2. But for rent Judge pass order to pay rent where she is staying. Saying I took her out from my own house to rented house by frod.
I heard there is no provision to to provide rent under divorce application .
Can you please help me how to take it ahead.
Challange this judgment, if the rent is too high.
Else keep contesting divorce.
Though there is no express provision for rent u/s HMA 24, but court has vide powers.
Thanks for your reply sir , rent is 15% of my salary. 60% in housing loan and 25% for me, kindly suggest. Also can I put revision application ?
Sir , My 60% in loans , 10% my home rent , 15% Court ordered to pay rent. 15% I have to manage parents and my expenses .
She is earning as good as 25% of my salary.
Can I put order for review ?
What are the chances of winning the same if I challange ?
My wife is working in co operative banks in up. I hope govt job it is. Job she got by up seva mandal luvknow. How i can get the info. Rti is useful or detective? Or crpc 91 will work.
CrPC 91 would work perfectly, if you know her office address
🙏 sir for nice article.mine is peculiar case. i have married 2011. I felt something abnormal in her .madam time she got pregnant within six months.went away.after having kid her health being detorating.now my mil demands 40lakhs.later came to know she have mental retardation.i even submitted to court.she filed HMA section 18&20 Hindu adoption and maintenance.later I filed gwop.her health totally spoilers.they alleging that I only spoilers her health.after marriage they gave site to her daughter.later gift deed cancelled.my mil playing drama for 40 lakhs..I have applied for medical aid.after proper medical examination I am willing to her back..but.they are giving counter for medical aid..pls suzzest me option s.how should I face cases.tep applied but no concrete results.plz help me sir…thank you in advance.you are great hope for victims like us..thank you sir.
It needs detailed discussion
Sir, if I have property in my name, what should I do. Pl suggestx
No blanket advise. Need to know the complete facts
Sir
My wife has lie in her main petition that she is earning 3k from her father’s school
Whereas in supporting document (complaint against us in PS) She claim that she is Pricipal of that school
Pls guide me how come I bring the truth infront of the court
Thanks
Please ask them the submit records of salaries paid to all teachers and then question why such preferential treatment to her.
My 498a wife is teaching as lecturer on ad-hoc basis the moment she filed FIR against highly abused section she joined around the same date. I have withdrawn her income proof through RTI. Will that be enough relief. DV act has no order so far. There is no crpc 125. In 498a her statement still pending. It appears to me they are just dragging the case. The fact I don’t understand, judges are simply audience. They should observe such misuse and should take action in order to dismiss such cases so that unnecessary burden on courts can be curbed. This is fourth year going on. Income tax department penalized them however the amount is very low.
This is the current situation Sir, what else can be done so that Mrs 498a leave me and I wish she marry someone else and next time file a rape case on his new husband. …lol
Dear Sir,
I have a query… Though I am paying my IM without fail… The lawyer is not cooperating and filing the evidence!
I dont have any assests… N their main intention is to extract money by dragging the case… So that it may fetch few lakhs only in the form of IM.
What to do? I changed 3 lawyers!
On this aspect no advise can be givem
You should drive the case and not lawyer.
A very educative article though, some of the part I am not agreed to due to personal views. However, the kind of exposure you must have been undergone can not be negated. Since, I am at a very early stages of my pending cases, I haven’t thought of being non-vengeance. This article has further strengthen my knowledge base to fight against biased policies.
Thanks Buddy, fight and fight well.
Great article Sir! I have been following almost all of these points. Recently, my wife left the job and mentioned in the court that she has been terminated. She is also not filing income affidavit and delaying the case. She is not even showing termination letter. I am already paying all the educational and extra curricular activities expenses for my children.
She is staying in the same house(multistorey) and I am paying for all the household expenses like electricirty, water, security bill etc.
What should be my startegy now?
If the case is in Delhi and she has not filed Income Affidavit as per Kusum Sharma Judgment. Her application should not have been accepted as per the law laid down by this judgment.
You should press for dismissal of her application on this ground.
Also, if you are in Delhi. Please attend Sahodar India’s weekly meetings. The information can be gotten from the contact me page of this website.
Sir, I am not from Delhi but from NCR. The update is that she filed IA and showed her income as Rs 2000 only per month. She also submitted the termination letter. She was earning 42k per month (in hand) from that job excluding her income in cash from her private practice. In one of the order, court mentioned that she is running clinic in the house but she is claiming that she don’t have any clientage.
Arguments are suppose to happen next month for Interim Maint. in DV.
What should be my arguments here?
Hello Sir,
Very nice article. However, I would like to ask a query:
1. If someone works in a company where you can put some amount in kind of saving fund and that amount does not show up in salary slip. Can one make use of the same to show reduced in hand income?
2. You say , be open for negotiations. However, what to do if somebody asks 50 lacs of rupees to settle the matter?
Pls advice.
Rgds,
Robin
1. I have not understood the concept clearly so won’t comment
2. Being “Open to Negotiations” does not mean giving-in to illegal and illogical demands. Stick to the fight, if they are illogical.
Nice n genuine thought n really only on this ground I won my maintenance case against my wife in both lower courts and willingly agreed and accepted to give maintenance to my two minor daughters, i m ready to maintain my wife too- stays with me with my two daughters.
Good Work Buddy. Spread your success story.
Reviewed your article. It needs more important points to be added.
1) How to make/fill income affidavit to best fit your expenditures with rise and minimized net income accordingly. It should have talked about best stretegy.
2) How to tackle settlement when it is being offered by the court/judges/wife with a wrong/illegal practice upon asking the father to give up child-father relationship.
3) How to handle execution in case if there is no sufficient funds available due to excessive amount of maintenance, if arbitrarily ordered.
Point 1 relates to Delhi specifically and thus not covered in the article. Maybe in future, I shall write a separate article on it..
Point 2 and 3 has to be dealt on a case to case basis. You should not give up father-child relation at any cost. And arbitrary awards should ideally be challenged.